How to consistently build confidence and have a positive outlook - Small Business Coach, Women Business Coaching - Client Attraction

How to consistently build confidence and have a positive outlook

Fabienne Fredrickson
July 17, 2012

Sometimes my clients struggle with building confidence and maintaining a positive outlook as they wait for the success they are working towards. I have two things I want to share with you that I have done myself to stay up on a bad day.

“When you consistently build confidence and have a positive outlook you attract more clients.” (Click here to tweet this.)

1. Start a Gratitude Success Journal

At the end of each day, look for five things to be grateful for that happened that day. Look for the success you have achieved, even the little things. Sometimes you may write, “Woohoo! I got a new client!” Or it could be a new ezine subscriber or a new networking contact. Take note of every success along the way and feel good about what is going your way. I want you to actually write the word “woohoo” so you can feel the energy of your gratitude and celebration of your success.

When you do this, you set an intention to look for the good in your life. This new habit makes you notice the successes in each day. Not only that, but you’ll have a record to look back at, which is very powerful if you start feeling low. Rereading your gratitude success journal lifts your energy big time. When your energy is high, you are open and positive about your ability to attract more clients.

This is a key piece of the metaphysical and spiritual part of the client attraction system. The more you focus on the successes you have, the more the Universe or your subconscious mind will give you more. Consistently doing this will raise your vibration. You can see why it works to focus on the positive rather than dwell on what is not working for you, right?

2. Create a Kind Words Folder

Any time anyone says anything nice, put a copy of it in your kind words folder. If you get a thank you note from a satisfied client or a testimonial, into the folder it goes, as well as any kind of mention in the press. Wouldn’t you want to attract more clients like these by you celebrating their successes?

In the beginning, here’s what I did when I was having a bad day or felt down. I would read my client testimonials in the morning and the evening to remind myself, “Ah, clients like what I do for them, even though one cranky person wants a refund or said it wasn’t worth it.” It helped me realize it wasn’t about me and even though I can always improve on what I’m doing, the client’s reaction wasn’t my problem, It’s his or her problem. And this person wasn’t my ideal client.

Keeping the kind words file, reading the testimonials and tracking your successes powerfully changes your mindset in a very short period of time, especially if you do this daily.

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Do you have a gratitude success journal or kind words file? If not, get started today. You will be amazed at how much this boosts your confidence and gives you a positive outlook. Consistency is key, so be dedicated to the system because it works!

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