Get OUT of fear, and INTO expectation - Small Business Coach, Women Business Coaching - Client Attraction

Get OUT of fear, and INTO expectation

Fabienne Fredrickson
April 25, 2011

I recorded this new video success tip based on something I live everyday in my business.

We entrepreneurs, regardless of what level of business we’re at, often find ourselves staring fear right in the face. Hey, it simply comes with the territory of climbing out on that limb and taking certain risks (risks that others aren’t necessarily willing to take…) in order to accomplish our BIG goals.

I share my secret on how to get THROUGH that fear and come out on the other side with all the success you desire. Make this tip part of your daily routine and you’ll experience the POWER of positive expectation because what you have in your life is based on what you EXPECT.

I see it at work everyday in my own life and in that of my client’s. I hope you’ll put it to work in yours too…

  • Fabienne,
    Great tip, I have now on my wall



  • I love that affirmation Fabienne! Thanks for the reminder that what we see is not a reality at all.

    I have this one below right in front of me in my office to remind myself why I like to take big leaps. It is that feeling of magic, ya know. Hugs and happy Monday.

    “Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it.” -Goethe

  • Great video Fabienne! Love it, thanks for sharing.

  • Yes, Fabienne! This is working. I have had it up on my wall for months. Thanks so much for sharing it with everyone else.

  • Thank you for the awesome tip. It is very timely for me as I am preparing to increase the visibility of my company. This weekend I have a booth at the Stamford Women’ Expo. I AM in a place of positive expectation.

  • Beautiful, Fabienne!! Could not have come at a more perfect time. I was just getting ready to make a phone contact that had me feeling a bit anxious. Fear IS part of the process. Expectation is everything. Thank you!! Taylor

  • This is exactly what I needed to see Fabienne! Love it, thank you!!

  • Yes, yes, yes! This reaffirms what I have been thinking and reading for the past couple of days. I am printing it out today and posting on the wall for a constant reminder. Thank you!

  • Devra Thomas

    I have this sort of thing on my bathroom mirror (use dry-erase markers!). And, of course, The Universe sends me a little love note and tells me the same thing every morning. 🙂

  • Thank You for sharing and for your inspiration Fabienne! I have been in such a bind lately that I have been expecting the worst and guess what is happening… so am changing that frame of mind NOW! I am also going to print that quote and hang it right in front of my desk too!

  • Sonja

    Fabienne – just what I needed at the right time! God bless you always xo

  • Thanks for sharing, Fabienne!
    Since joining Gold and watching the Mindset Retreat videos, I realized that this is absolutely true!
    Thanks for opening my eyes and those of so many entrepreneurs!

  • It DOES work, Fabienne and it’s especially helpful (and calming) when things are looking like they are not working. It’s powerful and comforting to have this “mantra” to turn to on a daily basis. It’s the first thing I see in the morning, land the last thing I see at night – and on some days, many times in between.

  • Love this tip – thank you!

    Perfect for me right now as I’m shifting gears and launching a new biz on Mother’s Day – Sugar Baby Planners. And, no matter how many times you’ve done it, fear of failure lurks.

    I’m banishing the fear and expecting nothing but positive results!


  • This is a great tip. I actually have something similar posted in my office. The key is to read it throughout your day a believe it. Whenever I stop reading it, doubt and fear kick in. Thanks for reminding me of this! You are absolutley awesome and right on time with the yummy tips you so generously share!

  • Great tips for success Fabienne…thanks for the encouragement 🙂

  • I have the same quote on the wall behind my computer. I read it every single morning. Since I have put the quote up, I have been receiving amazing things in my life. Thank you for the success tip.

  • The Universe sent me this message through you, Fabienne, on the day of launching my $20K VIP program, which includes the final weeks of study with me in Buenos Aires. Implementing this program also accelerates the fulfillment of my personal dream, and I found myself blocked by many twinges of fear. Thank you so much for sharing this tip; I’m printing it right now! Many hugs and thanks.

  • Thank you! I needed to hear this today. 🙂


  • thank you Fabienne! I love this idea of positive attraction, like The Secret!

  • Thanks Fabienne for this reminder,
    In front of me above my desk I have ” Every action leads towards the vision” and now I’ll add this one as well!

  • Fabienne, Thank you for the inspiration this morning! A great reminder that fear is there, but we must move through it with positive beliefs!

  • So true Fabienne…Fear is a feeling we need to learn to like. Extreme sports enthusiast have learned to love that rush of fear. Not that we need to do something stupid, but we need to learn to like that butterfly in your stomach feeling so we can feel it and keep moving forward.

  • Hi Fabienne, I have quotes like tese too next to my desk, and look at them few times a day – It help me and always remember my next goal.
    Thanks for the video.

  • Love it! Thanks Fabienne!

  • There’s an ancient text in the Christian tradition that says, “Faith is the substance of things hoped for and the EVIDENCE of things unseen.” That’s where all manifestation begins…in the unseen universal realm and we tend to our intentions with that positive expectation called faith or belief.

  • Awesome! Awesome! Thanks for the tip!

  • Love this way of drawing work, people, and possibilities into my life and the life of my clients. I live a negativity free zone life, and Fabienne, you are one reason why!

  • Thank you so much. I’m having a very challenging time with my health, especially today plus trying to finish an ebook today, remembering your “No excuses” approach! I’ll get that on the wall and believe that my health is improving day by day, the answers are on the way and I must just keep my faith!

    • Rosemary – Feel better and KEEP GOING. 🙂

  • Dynamite tip especially for a visual person like myself. It’s so important to accept a little fear without letting it stop you moving forward.

    Thank you, Fabienne. I’ve got my tip up on the wall as I type. 🙂

  • Thanks so much Fabienne! I just made myself 2 copies in a pretty colored font – one for my office, one for my bedroom! It’s actually nice to see, as opposed to my messy handwriting on a post-it 🙂

  • Hey Fabienne! You keep me motivated! Thanks!

  • Love the tip of the perfect place to put the signs.
    The sides of my bookcases are now filled with inspiration!

  • Thanks Fabienne! That’s inspiring, I’ve added it to my electronic vision board.

    Brigette and Cath – loved your quotes too!

  • I used to be embarrassed that I was afraid. If I was a big shot professional…didn’t I need to exude confidence and keep my fears to myself? I now use this quote that has been posted on my wall WITH my clients to make it clear that I am not asking them to do something (be brave) that I don’t expect myself to do too.

  • This is exactly what I needed to hear today Fabienne! I took on a large complex project last week that was going well until today… Hit a roadblock this afternoon, doubted myself, took a break, saw your email, watched the video, and the solution miraculously appeared in my brain. Thank you work working your magic once again!

  • Thanks! That’s definitely been happening over the last week – we’ll have someone return something big, but then I stay in positive expectation and we still end up having an above-average day for sales!

  • Thanks Fabienne! It’s so easy to descend to despair, fear, etc. Focusing on expectation needs to be a constant reminder for me!

    • Sandy, you’re so welcome. And yes, we all need the reminder once in awhile 🙂

  • Fabienne,

    You are so right! I agree and love those two powerful sentences.

    I write a thank you every day in my gratitude journal for all I have and all the abundance that is on its way.

    Easter Becker-Smith

  • Fabienne

    Thanks for such a great tip today and great quote! It is funny I was just talking to someone this morning about the Garth Brooks’ song Unanswered Prayers and how something that seemed like a big defeat a few years ago was actually for my highest good even if I couldn’t see it in the moment!


  • Ahh.. the Universe must have been lining up to give me this quote today as a reminder of that truth!!
    As I sit here on the cusp of moving tomorrow.. and all packed up.. I know that the universe has already lined up a great space for my family to live… I just need to LINE UP myself and Expect that it is there!!
    Thanks so much Fabienne.. perfect timing.
    Peace and light
    Elissa Joy

  • Thanks for the reminder Fabienne! I’ve experienced it in both business and personal life to the tune of 3 babies in 2 years….too many clients at once…the list goes on….be careful what you ask for and be completely prepared for it ALL to happen! 🙂 But it is so NICE to be reminded and so well said by you. You are a blessing!
    Crystal O’Connor

  • Olga Adler

    Great video, Fabienne! The new mantra is up and right in front of me – thank you. BTW, you look FANTASTIC and I LOVE the cardigan…

  • Thank you for this motivation! I copied it and taped it up to see every single day. I needed to hear this right now!

    Also – love your hair and make-up!

  • You’re so right, Fabienne! I just put up a list of positive emotions I intend to focus on…no matter what! Thanks for the re-enforcement.
    You’re always ‘on time!’

  • Wow—that’s a great mantra to have on the wall THanks so much for sharing this, Fabienne.

  • Fabienne, where have you been all my life? I’m so glad I found you. Nadine xo

  • Nancy Oblea

    Thank You so much for posting video and relating as well.
    Nancy Oblea

  • This is truly a great tip. It also reaffirms the fact that there is enough wealth for everybody. And all you have to do is believe that you will attract the wealth and success that you deserve and its YOURS!

    Thanks again Fabienne!

  • roy

    Cause me to hear Your lovingkindness in the morning,
    For in You do I trust;
    Cause me to know the way in which I should walk,
    For I lift up my soul to You. Psalm 143:8

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